The Struggle No One Talks About
You’re not supposed to hate your parents, right?
But here you are—holding onto resentment, pain, and frustration you wish you didn’t have.
👉🏻 Maybe they hurt you in ways you struggle to put into words.
👉🏻 Maybe they were absent, controlling, dismissive, or neglectful.
👉🏻 Maybe they still trigger you every time you interact with them.
👉🏻 And even if you don’t see them often, their influence lingers.
Here's how a less-than-stellar relationship with your parents might be impacting you today:
⛓️💥 Your childhood wounds shape your self-worth, relationships, and decision-making. You may struggle with trust, boundaries, or feeling "good enough."
⛓️💥 Their voices still echo in your mind. Even if you’ve physically distanced yourself, their criticism, expectations, or neglect still affect how you see yourself.
⛓️💥 Anger and resentment weigh you down. No matter how much you try to ignore it, the emotional toll spills into other areas of your life—your career, friendships, and even your own parenting.
⛓️💥 You feel stuck between guilt and anger. Part of you feels like you should forgive, but another part doesn’t want to let go of the hurt.
You’ve tried to move on. You’ve tried to “just let it go.”
But the truth is, the pain lingers, shaping how you see yourself, your relationships, and your ability to fully enjoy life.
Here's how to tell if HOW TO STOP HATING YOUR PARENTS Is For You?
This step-by-step roadmap is for you if:
👉🏻 You find yourself replaying past interactions and wishing things had been different.
👉🏻You feel triggered, frustrated, or emotionally drained whenever you’re around your parents.
👉🏻You’ve cut them off (or considered it), but the resentment still lingers.
👉🏻 You struggle with trust, boundaries, or repeating unhealthy patterns in relationships.
👉🏻You want to move forward—but you don’t know how.
What if you could release that resentment—not for them, but for you?
This step-by-step guide isn’t about forcing forgiveness or pretending the past didn’t happen.
It’s instead about reclaiming your emotional freedom, understanding your pain, and deciding what moving forward looks like for you.
Take a deep breath my friend, because I've got your back.
What You’ll Learn Here & How Your Life Will Change
This coaching roadmap walks you through a clear, practical process to untangle resentment, shift your perspective, and start healing—on your terms.
But let’s talk about why this matters.
Because when you finally do the work to stop hating your parents and heal (whether that means reconciliation or just personal peace), everything in your life begins to shift.
💡 You’ll stop carrying the emotional weight of the past.
Right now, that resentment, frustration, and pain aren’t just about them—they’re affecting you.
The exhaustion, the stress, the lingering anger that bubbles up in other areas of your life?
That fades when you finally process and release it.
💡 You’ll have healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
The way we experience our parents often sets the tone for all our relationships.
Healing means breaking free from unhealthy patterns—whether that’s people-pleasing, struggling with boundaries, or attracting relationships that mirror old wounds.
💡 You’ll reclaim your sense of self.
When you’re no longer defining yourself through the lens of their expectations, criticisms, or absence, you get to fully be you.
Your confidence, self-worth, and personal freedom grow exponentially.
💡 You’ll make decisions from a place of peace, not pain.
Your choices—big and small—won’t be reactions to old wounds anymore. Instead of acting out of fear, guilt, or resentment, you’ll feel clear, grounded, and in control of your own path.
💡 You’ll stop feeling triggered every time they come up.
Whether you’re in contact with them or not, thinking about them won’t send you spiraling.
You’ll be able to respond (or not respond) from a place of strength instead of emotional turmoil.
Inside This Coaching Roadmap, You’ll Learn How To:
💐 Understand the Root of Your Resentment – Identify why the pain runs so deep and how it has shaped your emotions, beliefs, and behaviors.
💐 Reframe the Narrative – Learn how to separate who they are from who you choose to be, so their past actions don’t define your future.
💐 Set Boundaries That Feel Right for You – Whether you want to rebuild, redefine, or release the relationship, discover how to create emotional safety.
💐 Heal Without Forced Forgiveness – Let go of the idea that you have to ‘forgive and forget’ to move on. Instead, find real ways to heal and lighten the emotional load.
💐 Move Forward with Peace – Create a plan for how to navigate future interactions (or distance) in a way that feels good to you.
But wait there's more!
To make sure you feel completely supported, I’ve included an extra special bonus:
👉🏻 TRIGGERS - HOW TO STAY CALM CHEATSHEET - a step-by-step guide that will help you quickly calm down when you're triggered by your parents.
👉🏻 REPARENTING - FILLING IN THE GAPS GAMEPLAN - a quick guide that will show you powerful ways you can provide yourself with the nurturing you may have missed receiving growing up.
SPECIAL BONUS:
TRIGGERS - HOW TO STAY CALM CHEATSHEET
+ REPARENTING - FILLING IN THE GAPS GAMEPLAN
This Is The Most Important Work You’ll Ever Do
Here’s the truth: This pain won’t go away on its own.
You might think time will heal it. You might tell yourself you’re “fine” and try to push it down.
But deep down, you know the resentment, anger, or hurt is still there—impacting your relationships, your choices, your peace.
And if you don’t face it? It stays.
It lingers in your self-doubt, in your triggers, in the way you second-guess your worth.
It shows up in your relationships, in your parenting, in your ability to fully enjoy life without the weight of the past pulling you back.
💡 Here's the thing - healing isn’t just for them; it’s for YOU.
This is about reclaiming your emotional freedom.
It’s about no longer letting the past dictate your future.
It’s about stepping into the version of yourself who is no longer bound by pain, anger, or guilt.
You deserve that freedom. You deserve peace.
And the time to start is now.
✨ Are you ready to stop carrying the weight of the past and finally move forward? ✨
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I can't wait to help you with this xxx
Hi, I'm Frances Vidakovic
I'm a certified life coach for goal getters, with a degree in psychology, host of the INSPIRING LIFE SCHOOL PODCAST, course creator and CEO of the award-winning website InspiringMomLife.
I help women achieve their goals without sacrificing their family life or their sanity. My one true superpower is: transforming dreamers into doers.